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DATING ADVICE FROM THE PROFESSIONAL

Posted by hopsondesk@aol.com on January 29, 2012 at 9:20 PM

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Hello, if you read Spicy Spinsters, you know me as the high priced call girl from “The Life I Love.” I’m the gal that guys pay more for. . . If you want to get him and keep him, try my advice.

WHAT DOES HE WANT?

Most men prefer confident, positive women who take care of themselves. The standards for beauty are different for all men. No matter what you think you look like, someone believes you’re gorgeous. But if you have poor hygiene, you’ll face endless Saturday nights with Tiger-Lily, the cat (you might remember her from “I Won't Meet Preston" pg 139). Good grooming is the general air of freshness that proves you care about yourself.

Also make sure you don’t stay in a time warp. Is your hair style the same as it was fifteen to twenty years ago? Even if it is the best do-for-you, does your hair need a little highlighting or perhaps a new color? How about your make-up? Trends change and so do our faces, by the way. You might need to apply wrinkle filler or maybe the eye shadow color that used to look good is making you look tired now.

As for the first few dates, women who enjoy themselves in the moment and don’t think too far ahead generally make men feel comfortable. Don’t turn off your man by talking about the next date, or what’s going to happen next month, or the next ten years. The last thing you want is to seem needy.

NOW THAT YOU HAVE HIM, IS THERE A WAY TO MAKE HIM STAY?

Surprise! Surprise! Surprise! Always keep him guessing. If he never knows what to expect you can give a man variety on your terms. It doesn’t have to involve anything you’re not comfortable with doing. However, you do have to put on your thinking cap and experiment.

Part of the attraction a man feels for you at the beginning is that you’re new to him, and

he's learning all the overpowering mysteries about you. So make sure the newness never ends. The bedroom is an adult playroom; and the bed is a fantasy island. Role play. Use props. Dress the part. Make him feel wanted. Initiate the game sometimes.

Keeping him guessing doesn’t stop in the bedroom. Create tension and interest by not always doing or saying what he expects. Let him wonder about you, and get him doing things to get more of your time and attention.

Lastly, the brain is the biggest sex organ of all. While women want to know men listen to us, men are different animals altogether. Men are turned on by respect. If you lose your man to another woman, it will probably be because she made him think he’s great while you destroyed his ego. On the other hand never short change yourself. Don’t let him forget what a prize you are!

Please Note: The above is an expression of opinions and not professional advice. It is only to be used for personal entertainment purposes. You are solely responsible for the use of any of the content and Jewel Hopson is not responsible for any event or claim.

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